Resolved Question: Lesbian relationship help?

20 February 2011, 11:04 pm

so, me and my girlfriend were really really good together. she's a junior in high school, i'm a sophomore. We both went through a lot of crap to get to the point where we were when we met. As soon as i met her, i knew she was special. I couldn't get her out of my mind. I cared about her a lot, and thatnk god she liked me back. she finally asked me out, and it was really sweet. She was really shy, but i'm very outgoing, and we balance. She's big into politics (especially rachel maddow) and used to live in San Fransisco and loves Tegan and Sara (just like me). She's incredibly smart and loves to read, and is a musician as well. She's big into eastern philosophy just like me. We used to spend hours talking about books and music and philosophy and i just so happened to fall in love. then it all got ruined in one weekend. Her uber christian anti-gay mom got a little suspicious and confronted her about us. she got really quiet, and her mom started accusing her of being a terrible person and being selfish and destroying their family because of her sexuality. She (my girlfriend) got incredibly angry after her mom accused her of "recruiting and trying to rape" me, and thats what ultimately outed us. Throughout this whole struggle, i told her that i loved her. Well, she has a problem with that. she doesnt think she's worthy of anyones love, and she only ever really loved one girl back in San Fransisco. they still talk a lot, and im cool with that. but she told me that every time someone tell her they love her, she runs. and thats exactly what she did. She's really depressed and she said i deserved better than some depressed girl who could never see me outside of school. But i still care about her so much. i truly love her, and i don't know what to do. I want her back. but i don't know how to get her back. i can't make her see that its ok to love someone. she's so scared of feeling too much, and scared of her mom, and it drives me crazy. I just want my girlfriend back! what do i do?!... Read More »

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